Averting the eyes. Eye contact: how to learn to look people in the eyes. How to get rid of a bad dream

Recently I was visiting and saw how my friend was feeding her small child. The child clearly did not want to eat at the moment (either there was no desire or he did not like the taste), and it was fundamentally important for the mother to feed him.

And she tried all her abilities and capabilities on him in order to distract him, so that she could shove spoon after spoon into his mouth. And looking at this from the outside, I was once again convinced that MAN DOESN’T KNOW WHAT HE’S DOING.

You ask: - What was so special about it?

I will answer: - What our ancestors called EYE AWAY is a magical method of making the enemy see what you need.

Our ancestors attributed this to magical actions and considered it bad for their own people - because this teaches the child to change his vision of life to the vision of life through the eyes of society and he learns to live not as his Soul truly wants, but as society pleases, and I think this is also not entirely pleasing to God.

In our situation, the child clearly had his own opinion and his own desire, but the mother was not particularly interested in it - she was pursuing her GOALS (known only to her). After all, if she had fed the child later or less, NOTHING DANGEROUS WOULD HAVE HAPPENED. After all, the ability to avert one’s eyes was mastered in case of war with enemies and strangers. Now this is actively used by gypsies and pickpockets during thefts, swindlers and swindlers, illusionists in circuses, bosses - saying one thing, but doing something completely different. AND WE DON'T NOTICE THIS - WE WERE TAUGHT TO THIS BY THE PEOPLE CLOSE TO US - those who raised us. And our ancestors used this ART to lead ENEMIES away from their possessions and not to withdraw troops into battle (that is, not to tear them away from work and farming); distract attention while you gather your strength; to distract attention while the attack is coming from the other side or to draw them into a trap and much more. THE MAIN THING is to take the uninvited guests to where the Master of his land wants. In case of danger, it is clear - TO DISTRACT ATTENTION WITH SMALL FORCES AND PROTECT YOURSELF FROM THE DANGER.

The most interesting thing is that parents (grandmothers, nannies, teachers) do the same thing, but WITH THEIR BELOVED CHILDREN - they, too, WITH SMALL FORCES DISTRACT THE CHILD’S ATTENTION AND PROTECT THEMSELVES FROM DANGER (often imaginary, exaggerated, etc.). Many parents believe THAT THEY KNOW BETTER what the child wants and feels, as in the joke about a Jewish mother: - Moisha, go home! - Mom, I want to eat? - No, you're cold! This is the same way that mothers in any country “kill” the child’s cognitive interest by intimidating him with bandits (hooligans, drunk drivers, pedophiles, wolves, Baba Yaga, etc.) - THE MAIN THING IS THAT HE BE NEAR AND DOESN’T GO WHERE - Mom is calmer this way, she no longer has the same health and energy reserves to keep up with him everywhere, especially since in HER WORLD these dangers exist. SHE IS NOT THINKING ABOUT HIM, BUT ABOUT HERSELF, while using magical techniques “killing” in him what he NEEDS FOR A HARMONIOUS LIFE IN SOCIETY - to know and understand his desires, feelings, emotions (how can you control them if you are not even with them? familiar), have cognitive interest and curiosity (otherwise, in a crisis or dangerous situation, he will not find a way out - there is no experience in trying, looking for and finding solutions and a way out of the current situation), have a wealth of experience in interpersonal communication and relationships (without this there is absolutely no way in society) etc.

I'm not trying to blame modern parents or even their parents now, because... this became part of our education several centuries ago.

And it came in as a template (as a sample, pattern). It’s the same as in any skill - look at how the master did it and do the same. But patterns, templates and samples are probably great for working with inanimate materials like a piece of leather, a piece of fabric or a piece of board, and a child’s material, although pliable, is still ALIVE AND HAS A SOUL. And it is clear that you need to approach living material with templates, samples and patterns very carefully and thoughtfully and UNDERSTAND WHAT AND WHY YOU ARE DOING WITH IT. After all, it turns out as in the proverb, we hit sparrows with a cannon - we use (in relation to our beloved children) for our peace of mind techniques intended for STRANGERS and ENEMIES.

Look what happens - we raise our children and give them OUR VISION OF THE WORLD, “kill” their personal position, and when the time comes to release them into the REAL WORLD, we understand that they do not “stand on their own two feet”, now they begin to understand this and they themselves, because have already faced reality.

Difficulties also arise in the fact that we can deceive even ourselves. We turn our eyes away from everything that does not fit into either an acceptable self-image or a worthy and decent goal. On the surface lie the goals that society considers correct, honest, worthy, bright, faithful, good, kind, reasonable, etc. - Underline what you need yourself :). Your goals and the goals of society may not coincide, but from childhood we learn to hide our real goals and show others what is acceptable.

This is where the original Russian questions arise - WHAT TO DO? and WHO IS TO BLAME?

Each of us has had such a situation when you look into a person’s eyes and you feel bad because of the hypnotic gaze, full of emotions, feelings and information. You can learn to “speak” with your eyes.

In general, eyes are not only a mirror of the soul, but also an excellent way to understand a person’s character. This can be done by assessing the shape of the eyes. Take the eye shape test to get to know yourself better and learn to analyze other people. Such skills are very useful when meeting new people or in work and any interaction with people. You will be able to see a person without communication, predicting his actions. Our body can tell others a lot about us, so there are a huge number of methods for analyzing character and emotions through the eyes.

The power of a glance

Everything that we think about at any given moment is reflected by our gaze, as well as by facial expressions. This is pure psychology, known to people for about a century. Our emotions betray us: anger, hatred, embarrassment, shame, fear, love. All this can be read in the eyes and facial expressions, so you can show your feelings with your gaze. Unconsciously, we form one or another type of face, characteristic of each emotion, but you can try to emulate emotions, using the power of your gaze to awaken sympathy, fear, hatred.

The power of your gaze can be brought to such an extent that people will obey you without words. This is used in such a well-known psychological practice as hypnosis, when the doctor inspires you that there is no need to be afraid of spiders or heights, that you are happy, that you have something to live for and enjoy every day.

The power of a gaze can have not only a psychological, but also an energetic component. Human energy is an invisible aura that surrounds the body. WE feel the fear of other people or their love, but the eyes perfectly convey energy flows - almost the same way as the touch of hands. There are people who with their eyes can infect us with joy, fun, or, conversely, give us despondency. Under the gaze of some people you feel creepy, uneasy and simply awkward. Energy flows carrying information and emotions are perfectly transmitted through the eyes. Each of us has encountered a situation when you look at a person and he looks back at you, as if he knew that you were looking at him. This is direct evidence that there is an energetic connection between us all, the conductor of which is the eyes.

How to control people with your eyes

The power of the mind and subconscious helps control destiny, so always control your thoughts. It is worth noting that not only people, but also animals can be controlled by their eyes alone, without words. They are even more susceptible to this, so you can practice on them.

So, there are two versions of how you need to look at a person in order to inspire him with something or influence some feelings. Some people think that you need to look into one eye, while others say that you need to concentrate your gaze on the bridge of your nose.

What’s most interesting is that both people are right. Masters of psychology say that the right hemisphere of the brain, which is connected to the human left eye, is responsible for conscious emotions and logic. The left hemisphere and, accordingly, the right eye are responsible for feelings and unconscious emotions.

Looking at the bridge of your nose or eyebrows, you seem to be putting pressure on a person. This may not work well with loved ones, but with colleagues or strangers it works perfectly. It feels like you are looking straight into the soul. It’s difficult to go through this calmly, which is why most people look away when they do.

So, if you want to awaken logic in a person, then you need to look into your right eye. This is the best way of business communication when everything suits you. If you want to know something, then you need to look into your left eye, since it is connected to the part of the brain responsible for feelings. When you are in love with a girl, then look into her left eye to awaken love and show your feelings, your emotions. This way you will make her feel them. If you are scared, then the other person's left eye will tell him this. If you hate a person, then he can feel it too. If you want to make a person fear you or obey you, then look at the bridge of the nose. This is a powerful tool for law enforcement officers. They are trained to do this.

That's not all. Remember about energy? Remember to think about what you want to send to the person. Your aura will do its job, don’t even doubt it. The difficulty is that you need to learn to control your thoughts. When thinking about what you want to send to a person to manage them and their emotions, you need to do it at ease. Looking too closely will make a person wary. It looks very strange when they look at you non-stop. Avert your eyes periodically and look at the person about 80% of the time you communicate. Don't forget about etiquette, as it is important. Moreover, a man looking too closely at another man is automatically perceived as a threat. For women, everything is much simpler. For them it is always love. Don't forget this.

Practice more and think less about negativity when you want to make a positive impression on someone. Energy flows will convey to him what you want, and over time your skills will become better. One of the laws of the Universe is at work here: the images in your head create reality, not only for you, but also for other people. Good luck and don't forget to press the buttons and

to whom. DROP YOUR EYES to whom. Razg. To distract attention with something in order to mislead or deceive. [ Kupavina:] What kind of grooms? What gentlemen? I haven't seen one yet. [Murzavetskaya:] That's enough, mother. Why are you averting your eyes from me? I'm an old sparrow, you can't fool me with chaff!(A. Ostrovsky. Wolves and sheep).

Phraseological dictionary of the Russian literary language. - M.: Astrel, AST. A. I. Fedorov. 2008.

See what “Avert your eyes” is in other dictionaries:

Look away- Look away. Phraseological groups or phraseological combinations are almost devoid of homonyms. They are included only in synonymous rows of words and expressions. In order for a phraseological group to find a homonymous phrase, it must have ... History of words

Look away- (foreign language) to divert attention (to inflate unnoticed). Wed. Courtesy and affection were nothing more than a means to avert customers' eyes, talk their teeth and in the meantime sell them rotten, faded goods. Ch. Uspensky. Book of checks. 2. Wed. Gn... ... Michelson's Large Explanatory and Phraseological Dictionary (original spelling)

look away- See deceive... Dictionary of Russian synonyms and similar expressions. under. ed. N. Abramova, M.: Russian dictionaries, 1999 ... Synonym dictionary

look away- (foreign language) to divert attention (to cheat unnoticed) Wed. Courtesy and tenderness were nothing more than a means of averting customers' eyes, talking with their teeth, and meanwhile foisting rotten, faded goods. Ch. Uspensky. Book of checks. 2. Wed. Mr. Spasovich...... ... Michelson's Large Explanatory and Phraseological Dictionary

avert someone's eyes- disapproved Intentionally distract someone. attention, deceive. Try to change the topic of conversation. eyes of a jealous husband... Dictionary of many expressions

Avert/look away- to whom. Razg. Disapproved Intentionally distract someone. attention from what l. FSRY, 300; BMS 1998, 113; Podyukov 1989, 140; ZS 1996, 368 ... Large dictionary of Russian sayings

ANSWER- TAKE AWAY, I’ll take you away, you’ll take me away, please. vr. took away, took away, took away; taking away, completely (to take away). 1. who what. Leading, accompanying, delivering to some place. Take the child home. Take the horse to the stable. Take the car to the garage. || Translate from... ... Ushakov's Explanatory Dictionary

take away- I’m leading, you’re leading; took away, led, lo; taken away; set aside; deno, dena, deno; taking away; St. 1. who what. Leading, accompanying, delivering wherever. O. guest in the room. O. child to kindergarten. O. horse in a meadow, pasture. O. son to his aunt, grandmother. Urgently o. home...... encyclopedic Dictionary

take away- To vent my soul, to express everything that has accumulated, that is sore, that I had to remain silent about for a long time. When they met, the friends took their souls away. Avert someone's eyes (colloquial) distract someone's n. attention from what n., to deceive. Don't think you can take your eyes off me! ... Phraseological Dictionary of the Russian Language

take away- I’m leading, you’re leading; past took away, led, lo; prib. past taken away; prib. suffering past allotted, den, dena, deno; deepr. taking away; sov., trans. (non-sov. take away1). 1. Leading, accompanying, delivering to which location. place. Take your child to kindergarten. □ Denisova… Small academic dictionary

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Our eyes usually follow our thoughts, and sometimes, just by looking into our eyes, other people can understand what we are thinking about. Would you agree that reading another person's thoughts through their eyes is a very useful skill? Thanks to this, everyone will be able to understand whether they are being deceived or determine whether your interlocutor is interested in what you are telling him about. Poker players master this useful skill perfectly.

Eyes to eyes

Such contact with the interlocutor indicates that he is very interested in talking with you. Prolonged eye contact may indicate that the person is scared and/or doesn't trust you. Brief eye contact means the person is anxious and/or not interested in talking to you. And the complete lack of eye contact indicates the complete indifference of your interlocutor to your conversation.

Man looking up

Eyes raised upward are a sign of contempt, sarcasm, or irritation directed at you. In most cases, such a “gesture” means a manifestation of condescension.

If a person looks at the upper right corner

He visually imagines the picture stored in memory. Ask someone to describe the appearance of a person, and your interlocutor will certainly raise his eyes up and look to the right.

If a person averts his eyes to the upper left corner

This indicates that he is clearly trying to imagine something. When we try to use our imagination to visually “draw” some picture, we raise our eyes up and look to the left.

If your interlocutor is looking to the right

This means that he is trying to remember something. Try asking someone to remember the melody of a song, and the person will definitely glance to the right.

Looking to the left, people make up sounds

When a person imagines a sound or composes a new melody, he looks to the left. Ask someone to imagine the sound of a car horn underwater, and they will certainly look to the left.

If your interlocutor lowers his eyes and looks to the right

This person conducts a so-called “internal” dialogue with himself. The person you're talking to may be thinking about something you said, or they may be thinking about what to tell you next.

If a person lowers his eyes down and looks to the left

He thinks about his impression of something. Ask your interlocutor how he feels on his birthday, and before answering you, the person will lower his eyes and look to the left.

Downcast eyes

We show that we do not feel very comfortable or even embarrassed. Often, if a person is shy or does not want to talk, he lowers his eyes. In Asian culture, not looking a person in the eye and looking down when talking is the norm.

These “rules” are generally followed by all of us. But left-handed people do the opposite: right-handed people look to the right, left-handed people look to the left, and vice versa.

How can you tell if someone is lying to you?

There is no absolutely correct algorithm by which you can determine whether your interlocutor is lying or not. The best option is to ask a basic question, such as “what color is your car?” If a person raises his eyes and looks to the right (or left, if he is left-handed), then he can be trusted. Thus, in the future you can understand whether you are being deceived or not.

For example, while telling you about something that happened in class, your friend looks to the right; When talking about his holidays, he constantly looks up and glances to the right. Most likely, everything he said is true. But when he tells you about the beautiful girl he met the other day, and his eyes are directed to the upper left corner, you can conclude that he is clearly “embellishing.”

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Please tell me who knows anything about “averting eyes” or “magic of invisibility”
Judging by the fiction, this used to be something from the standard set of village magic - in the form of a conspiracy, perhaps - but what kind?
Either a qigong master or a Buddhist lama could disappear in the middle of the room in front of his students...
(I’ll try to answer myself first so that they don’t repeat themselves)
What could be going on here:
- manipulation with one’s energy = reduction of the etheric body - according to DEIR
- changing the distribution of your attention = trained during the “hard spin” (M Kelmovich “The Key to Life”)
-accidentally stumbled upon an Enochian invisibility spell (just experimenting with undeciphered gobbledygook, something you don’t want, you never know who to contact)
-maybe erasing your image in the perception of another or even recreating it not where you are standing -but how?
- but it’s unlikely to deceive the camera, for example... or is it possible?
-in Castaneda style - remove from the description of the world. Here, probably, the question “HOW?” They are unlikely to answer... but this is the most interesting option.
(Just don’t ask - WHY IS THIS? You just need to know such things, it seems to me. Especially when in 10 years video cameras will wink at you even from the toilet - total damn control...)