The method of systemic-family constellations is treated differently, most often either very well or very poorly. You can fully understand what this method is only by participating in constellations according to B. Hellinger.

A person who has been a participant in systemic-family constellations is convinced that this is not just a method of group psychotherapy. There is a lot of mysticism in the constellations, things that cannot be explained rationally. They delight, surprise and frighten.

Not all communities of psychologists recognize systemic-family constellations as a scientific method of psychotherapy. Representatives of the Orthodox Church, as well as believing psychologists, consider it occultism and obscurantism. The author of the method himself, German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger (born December 16, 1925), classifies it as a class of spiritual practices. The author has developed not only a practical method, but also an entire theory explaining why and how systemic family constellations work.

B. Hellinger integrated several progressive psychological theories and derived new knowledge on this basis. In particular, the formation of the theory of family constellations was influenced by E. Bern's transactional analysis, that is, the analysis of interactions, states, games that people play and their life scenarios. In addition, by the beginning of the nineties of the twentieth century, when B. Hellinger began to apply his method, family psychotherapy was already used and was popular. The psychodrama of J. Moreno and the “Family Structure” method of V. Satir also formed the basis of the teachings of B. Hellinger and are in many ways similar to him.

In 2007, B. Hellinger created his own school, where today he introduces and trains those interested in the method of family constellations.

There can be no doubt that family is extremely important in a person’s life.. In a family, an individual appears, grows, develops, is educated, learns, and becomes a person. The individual survives thanks to the family. But few people look at the family as a kind of system that stores not only knowledge and relationships of the present time, but also ancestral memory, a kind of field of the genus.

The author of the theory and his followers discovered that problems in a person’s life, regardless of the area in which they arise, are a consequence of family trauma. Traumas are troubles that happened to a person’s family, not only after, but also before his birth.

More often Negative events in the life of the family are tried to be silenced or completely hidden. I don’t want to remember and talk about a difficult death (murder, suicide, early death, abortion), forced immigration, divorce, a grief-stricken relative (an alcoholic, a father who abandoned a child, etc.), a period when the family was poor and hungry, about that children do not respect their parents and so on. However, all these events remain and are preserved in the family ancestral field.

According to B. Hellinger, the source of life's troubles is the concealment of family trauma and/or the exclusion of one of the participants in a significant traumatic event from the family system. The imbalance of the family system leads to the fact that the current and subsequent generations suffer without being able to understand the cause of their troubles.

Working on a personal problem in a psychotherapeutic group, a person can discover a hidden cause, find out what in the distant past became the source of his current misfortunes and find a way out of the current circumstances. After the constellations, life changes dramatically within a few months, and unlike other methods of psychotherapy, visiting a group of family constellations is enough only once.

How are Hellinger placements performed?

Constellations according to B. Hellinger are a method of systemic family therapy aimed at correcting the negative consequences of dynamic family traumas.

Constellations are carried out not only in psychotherapeutic groups, but also in the form of individual psychotherapy at the client’s request. In the second case, group members are replaced with objects.

The client communicates his problem to the psychotherapist while in the group, after which participants are selected who will “play the role” of family members in the constellations, that is, they will be their “deputies.” Next begins direct psychotherapy session. The psychotherapist regulates the process, controls the actions of the group, directs the course of therapy, changes the number of substitutes, and so on.

Participants in the family system are not only blood relatives, but also people connected to the family through significant relationships. In addition, a family is people who are currently living, unborn, and dead, regardless of whether a person knows anything about their existence or not.

The human family system includes:

• parents,
• children,
• brothers, sisters,
• spouses, lovers, sexual partners,
• other blood relatives,
• people who influenced the family, who were in a “relationship of life and death” with one of its members; this could be either a person who saved or significantly improved someone’s life, or someone who made it unbearable or took it away.

It turns out that members of the psychotherapeutic group take on the role of not only the living, but also the dead, as well as bad people (scoundrels, rapists, murderers, and so on), participating in the constellation. This explains a lot negative attitude towards the arrangement method as to the occult and negative personal experience, because somehow the feelings and emotions of strangers appear in the deputy. For example, it is not easy to be a substitute for an aborted child or a person who died of starvation.

Orders of love

Problems arise if one of the members of the clan system violates the laws of the family, the order necessary for its normal functioning and the well-being of each of its members. The laws regulating the life of the clan were called by B. Hellinger “orders of love.”

Three orders or laws of love that cannot be violated:

1. Affiliation. It is impossible to “force” someone out of the family. Each member of the system has the right to belong. If one family member is rejected by her, the other will “replace” him, will behave the same way as he did, or may repeat his fate, or problems will begin in the family that will contribute to its destruction. When someone from the family feels “like a step-in”, this may be a signal of a violation of the law of belonging.
2. Hierarchy. The new family is more important than the old one. When a person has his own family, his parents are left “behind.” This does not mean at all that the child should forget about his parents, but a new family should be a priority.

This law also warns against transferring problems from past relationships to new ones. Even if a man and a woman were not officially married, but loved each other, they were a family, after breaking up, each of them must leave problems in the past if they want to be happy.

Nowadays, women and men often have several relationships before they find the person with whom they go to the registry office, people get married and remarry, have children from former lovers, and so on. Whatever happened in the past, it must be accepted as part of life, not ashamed and not hidden.

1. Balance between giving and taking. This is the law of balance and mutual assistance. There will be no harmony in a family where one person always gives his love, strength, tries, makes concessions, and the second only accepts the benefits given to him, without giving anything in return. For relationships to develop, goodness must be responded to with even greater goodness; the mutual desire of family members to make each other happy strengthens the system.

Systemic family constellations are unique in their kind. Despite criticism, psychotherapists working according to B. Hellinger’s method help many people understand themselves and solve problems, not only purely psychological, but also related to health, well-being, personal life and work.

Bert Hellinger's family constellations: exposing the pseudoscientific method

Superficial “psychotherapy” for the bored or income for the “guru”? What would you think of a therapist who tells you that you can't connect with your child because your grandmother had abortions? Are you overweight because your great-grandmother died during the siege? And you just can’t pass the traffic police driving test for a simple reason: your second cousin, whom you knew only by name and had never seen, died in a car accident... “He’s an expert, he knows better”? Welcome to family constellations according to Bert Hellinger!

“I look at you as the same person as me: who in the same way has a father, mother and his own special destiny.

Does it make you bigger? Or less? Better or worse? If you are bigger, then so am I. If it’s less, then me too. If you are better or worse, then so am I. Because I am a person just like you. If I respect you, I respect myself. If I am disgusted with you, then I am disgusted with myself too.” Bert Hellinger. To Hitler.

The dangers of bluffing in psychology and psychotherapy

The poker term "bluff" - a good face for a bad game - causes negative feelings when it turns out to be applied to science. You can believe or not believe religious figures, mystics, esotericists - but the authority of science in the eyes of people is too high. And when another “scientific sensation” appears on the Internet (and long before the Internet era), like the discovery of giant skeletons in India in the spring of 2007, people naturally feel disappointed when they learn that the National Geographic Society doesn’t know any giants, but Photoshop can do a lot ... It’s a shame, of course, that there is no archaeological discovery, no scientific miracle. But the authority of real archaeologists did not suffer. And no one was hurt - we sighed, laughed...

But when we are not talking about dead giants, but about living people - that is, a soap bubble turns out to be something that directly concerns them and has an impact on them... This is no longer a joke (giants could, with a stretch, be taken for a joke) - this almost a crime.

A psychologist and psychotherapist who use untested, unscientific methods of work are simply dangerous. If only because they cannot predict the consequences of their work for each specific individual.

But it becomes even more interesting when a certain method is proudly brandished by people who have a very indirect relationship to psychology and not the slightest connection to psychotherapy.

Theory

The first and quite serious article in Russian about the method of family constellations according to Bert Hellinger, published in the professional psychological publication “Psychotherapy”, is the work of Elena Veselago, which gives a fairly complete overview of the theory of the method. True, with many reservations - they say, Bert Hellinger himself does not call himself a theorist, teacher and teacher. He did not write monographs or articles. All his collections are other people’s recordings from his “performances”.

“Thus, there is simply no coherent concept of arrangements “from the original source”. With this “unscientific” approach, Bert also “infected” many of his first students, now the world’s leading constellations. Most of them do not strive to belong to the scientific community and choose to “practice rather than describe,” sometimes avoiding even ordinary explanatory work for their clients.”

Perhaps because these lovers of “creativity, adventure, meditation” have nothing to do in the scientific community? And they, acting “at random like Lazarus,” simply cannot explain anything to their clients?

Another wonderful passage from the same article: “The ability to make good arrangements is a “consequence” of such a difficult-to-define factor as personal maturity.

At the same time, what a “good arrangement” is is also not defined, and unambiguous quality criteria have not been formulated. Arrangement is often looked at as art - good job beautiful. And many people don’t want to provide a theoretical basis for this beauty.”

But how can a client find out whether the person to whom he entrusts his psyche has “matured” as a person, or not yet?! And a “personally immature” arranger, it turns out, will do the arrangement poorly? That is, it can easily not help, but harm?

And the most important question: beautiful, meditation, adventure... All this is wonderful, but... what does psychotherapy have to do with it? And don’t clients feel sorry for themselves when they entrust their most intimate things to these creative meditators who want to beautifully move figures and create the illusion of a person’s “reconciliation” with any difficulties and even the abominations of his existence?

After all, a person, according to Hellinger, is part of his family system, “no one is excluded, everyone belongs,” if you deny and try to throw out some part of the system from life (well, for example, your uncle with weak pedophile tendencies) - beware that someone Some of your children will unconsciously live out the motives of his life!

Sounds crazy? You simply don’t feel like you’re part of a family system, let alone a universal one! Hellinger feels (see epigraph) that he is even ready to accept, understand and... become like Hitler. Is not it so? To quote again: “If I respect you, I respect myself.” Is it possible to understand this differently?

Having mentioned that Hellinger is no theorist, Veselago carefully makes a reservation: “Rather, he is a spiritual teacher...”.

Well, of course. Reasonably not disdainful of material things - spirituality is now well paid. It’s strange why the previous spiritual teachers were such simpletons - and Buddha did not charge his students for Enlightenment, and Jesus cast out demons from a person for some reason, also for free...

Below Veselago’s article, as expected, is a list of references. Since the guru himself doesn’t care about describing his methodology, why shouldn’t his students do this? Jesus, too, as I remember, did not write a single Gospel...

So, Swagito Liebermeister, “The Roots of Love.” The surname is “native”, German, the name was received from another guru - namely, Osho.

The book plunges you into deep bewilderment from the first pages. I immediately remember the “dashing 90s”, when the shelves of bookstores and street stalls were literally littered with a variety of esoteric poppy... excuse me, literature that you read with an involuntary smile: I wonder whether the author will be able to fool the reader around his finger or not?..

Judge for yourself what is written in this book and preached as an effective method of solving personal and family problems with the help of constellations. In the right column are the questions that this creation raises.

"Roots of Love"	Author's comments and questions
“...the client brings with him a certain energy field of his family, and randomly selected people gain access to the feelings and experiences of those they replace.”	The same field that Hellinger’s adherents call “knowing”, “informational” and even “morphogenetic” (scientific, yes). What instruments recorded this “certain” field and in what units is it measured? How do strangers gain access to the feelings of people in the client's family? After all, if a client asks for help regarding problems in the family, he himself does not have access to the feelings of his relatives! And when the place of an absent person is replaced with an object (this is practiced in constellations), does a chair or pillow also gain access to the field?
“During the session, alternates can move around and say short phrases that the facilitator suggests to them. Usually these are simple sentences, no more than one line, revealing deep truths about the relationships between members of the family under study.”	How does the leader (constellator) know this deep truth? Not otherwise, the “knowing field” suggested...
“Any person who takes the opportunity to assemble his family members in a Hellinger constellation will find that the resulting picture accurately represents the relationships between the members of his family, and will also see some hidden meaning in it.”	Relationships between members of his family according to the constellator? Well, of course, a person who himself cannot figure out what kind of relationships he has in his family can be quite easily convinced that they are exactly like that. The opinions of other family members are interesting, but who asks them? Meaning hidden from whom?
“During the constellation, you can work with anything that causes you emotional discomfort or difficulties in practical terms, since the roots of almost all psychological problems lie in unresolved family conflicts.”	Almost everyone? Really? A person with a conflict in the professional sphere, which arose due to his incompetence and careless attitude to work, should look for the roots of this conflict in his family? Yes, you can, of course, find it if you really want it. Maybe the wife interfered with professional improvement, demanded help with the children and washing the dishes. Or the late grandfather did not go out to plant sowing on the collective farm due to heavy drinking...
“Simply understanding that my personal difficulties are a reflection of some larger disharmony that everyone I grew up with and who lived before me is experiencing is enough to relax.”	And here he is, with greetings from the other world! Those who lived before the client still experience disharmony! The verb “experience” is used in the present tense, otherwise it is impossible to understand. Curious what the relatives of people who don’t believe in an afterlife experience?
“The client should not discuss the experience gained or do anything with it - at the right time, changes will begin to occur as if by themselves. Perhaps, soon after some changes occur in the client’s consciousness, he will again want to do the constellation. And the new session will be held completely independently of the previous one.”	What if they don't start? What if they are negative? But the next phrase explains everything: of course, a new arrangement will be needed! And then another... and another... Everyone is fine: the client is convinced that he is solving his problems with all his might - it is not clear why he needs to apply for constellations again and again - the problems are not solved, but are getting worse? Or is their number growing? And it’s good for the presenter: each arrangement is a lot of money...

Elena Veselago writes very interestingly about these new constellations: “For example, a man came to me for advice, whose wife was “hooked” on constellation work and almost weekly asked for constellations about her relationship with him, despite the fact that her husband was categorically against such work ". This quote is from that part of her article called “Issues of correct access and interference in the system” - that is, the constellation’s attention is focused on the client’s husband, who does not like what is happening.

There is zero attention to the “hooked” one. That is, this is apparently perceived as an absolutely normal phenomenon. Well, I got carried away, well, she comes every week - and pays, of course. Why figure out why she does this - it is simply not profitable for the arranger to scare away such a promising client! It’s probably not worth talking about the professional ethics of real psychotherapists, who, seeing that they cannot solve the client’s problem and are going around in circles, “pass it on” to their colleagues - with the client’s consent, of course...

Another thing is interesting: why do clients (more precisely, mostly clients) get hooked on constellations? Is it because they really want to solve their problems? And do they solve the same problems if there is no end to the arrangements?

Maybe “problems with my husband” have nothing to do with it, and everything is much simpler? Constellations are an interesting, emotionally rich way to spend leisure time, moreover, in them a woman feels like the center of attention... Maybe her real problem is boring everyday life, lack of fulfillment and lack of live communication? A person who really lives brightly has no time and no interest in driving strangers back and forth around the room, imagining that they are replacing his loved ones...

Practice: theater of one director

Those interested can see the arrangers in action.

A very amateur film “Arrangements of Elena Brezhneva”. Request from a young girl: she wants to meet “her” man, but apparently it’s not working out yet. The arranger offers to choose substitutes - for the client and the desired man. He asks the client to place them the way she wants. The girl, without thinking twice, unites them in a hug...

The substitute child of this couple is introduced into the arrangement. Wow, all he can do is stand on the sidelines, since in this position his “mother” and “father” can only be occupied with each other! From all this, the arranger concludes that the client has too romantic ideas about life with her future partner, and there is no place for a child here... I feel sorry for the client from the bottom of my heart: she only nods, agreeing with the “guru” and not at all thinking about the “kitchen psychology” she heard.

It is absolutely incomprehensible why a young girl should not have romantic feelings for the man of her dreams. For falling in love, the initial period of a relationship, romance is more than natural - even for not so young people. The client was supposed to sit the deputies opposite each other and imagine that they were negotiating a marriage contract point by point, or what? And there the “child” would have sat down next to him... What is strange and wrong in the fact that, by joining the couple in an embrace, the girl conveyed her image of tenderness and intimacy?

Why were there questions about how long a deputy can stand hugging a man? Does the constellator really believe that people are capable of having sex around the clock without doing anything else? And this is exactly what the client dreams of? Where does this opinion come from?

Next, the client’s substitute parents are introduced into the constellation. And this is even stranger - from the point of view of a non-adept Hellinger. The girl is clearly of age, and is also unlikely to choose a partner of school age... What do parents have to do with it? The arranger, as ordered by Hellinger, decided to go through the “family system” - and how relationships with parents prevent a girl from building her happiness...

There is no need to say how amateurish and superficial this all looks. But the arranger, like a fish in water, arranges the “figures” this way and that, puts the girl (the client is already in the arrangement) opposite the “father” and passionately suggests that she should tell him: “I’m fine, dad!” It starts to smell like soap. Brazilian. Television. “Mama” admits that she got goosebumps... Of course: the director helps the puppets play what he needs them to play. Gives his all!

And the credits in the film are interesting. One of them is that constellations help solve any problem... partially.

And what complaints might there be later? The person will convince himself that he has partially felt better. I realized something about myself. But I didn’t quite understand what exactly. Again, it gave me goosebumps. The problem was and will remain unresolved, but partially something happened!

In conclusion, something about the arranger. After graduating from the defectology faculty of Moscow State Pedagogical Institute, she worked as a defectologist and speech therapist (why need the clarification? Moscow State Pedagogical Institute also produces psychologists, but this is not the case here). But even in the 3rd year I became interested in practical psychology. I visited Egides, Sinton, and the Violetovs (from a short autobiography: “In 1998 I ended up at the Center for World Relations. It was like an explosion: I began to realize myself, my path. A year later I began working as an instructor in Society, then in Harmonies. I absorbed the flow of information, my circle of friends almost completely changed, new books and ideas came... I came into contact with spirituality. The second stage of reiki"). How can a “practical psychologist” be without Reiki - absolutely nowhere, especially after coming into contact with spirituality. Integrative family therapy, thanatotherapy... Well, Hellinger somehow organically fit into this set. It feels like Mrs. Brezhneva herself was once well “hooked” on “trainings and self-improvement” - it’s something like a favorite hobby, without which there is no life. Is it surprising that others get hooked? This is an eternal party where you will always get attention!

Together with her husband (whom she met in Sinton), she created the “Solar Circle” training center. Invites you to trainings. Arrangements according to Hellinger - 5000 rubles per person. And the price is too high for a party - and for working with a person who is neither a psychologist, much less a psychotherapist... It’s not the money that I’m sorry for, it’s the people. On the other hand, maybe they, who do not even want to delve into what they are doing, deserve just such a specialist - a special education teacher?

Literature:

• 1. Elena Veselago. Systemic constellations according to Bert Hellinger: history, philosophy, technology. Journal "Psychotherapy" No. 7, 2010, No. 1, 2011. [Electronic source] // https://constellations.ru/paper.html
• 2. Swagito R. Liebermeister. Roots of love. Per. from English St. Petersburg: VES, 2008. [Electronic source] // https://www.litmir.me/bd/?b=161155
• 3. Portal Samopoznanie.ru, page Trainings and specialists, Elena Brezhneva. [Electronic source] // https://samopoznanie.ru/trainers/elena_brezhneva

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At present, no one will deny the fact that a person’s actions and motives are controlled not only by his individual will and mind. It is known that a person’s behavior is influenced, among other things, by various unconscious generic scenarios. The method of systemic family constellations allows become aware of these scenarios and work through them to get out of those dead ends and traps that our ancestors could not get out of at one time.

Family Theater

The history of the method of systemic constellations goes back to both transactional analysis Eric Byrne, and in the primary therapy of Arthur Yanov. It is known that while still a priest, the creator of the method, Bert Hellinger, first thought about the amazing phenomenology of intrapsychic nature. Having asked the question regarding What is more important, ideals or people? he soon resigned his religious rank and decided to devote his life to exploring the secrets of the human soul.

Soon after completing a course at the Vienna Association for Psychoanalysis, he turned to research in the field of family psychotherapy. They convincingly demonstrated that personality cannot be considered as a unit - but only as component of a system greater than the sum of its parts. Hellinger soon became convinced that all members of one family (whether they were fathers and sons, brothers and sisters, living or dead) were connected by invisible ties. These connections are built in accordance with three basic laws, which Hellinger called the Orders of Love.

The first of these laws, called law of belonging, states that every member of the family system has the right to belong to and be accepted within it. The second law, called law of hierarchy, is due to the unconditional priority that the new family system (young family) has over the old one (parental family). Finally, the third law law of balance, states that there must be balance in the relationship of giving and receiving.

Family technology

Under conditions of normal functioning of the family system, according to the laws described above, those currently living give to their children that love that at one time endowed by their parents. However, the lack and lack of love can lead to such “failures” in the system as parentification - a phenomenon that describes the situation when children are forced to become “parents” to their own fathers and mothers.

Or, for example, a violation of the law of belonging can lead to the fact that a person throughout his life is forced to feel as if he fulfills other people's requests and reproduces other people's feelings. Fortunately, systemic family constellations make it possible to shed light on the family situation and transform the existing intrapersonal context of the family relationship system.

Arrangement steps include request, selection of “substitutes” for family roles, direct placement of participants according to one or another scenario, as well as cathartic processing of the experience gained. The phenomenon due to which significant personal changes occur within systemic family constellations is called " morphic field". It is this that influences the fact that the substitutes within the constellations feel the same as their prototypes previously felt - which leads to significant changes within the therapy.

Despite the fact that Bert Hellinger's method never received scientific substantiation, his amazing efficiency helps to attract more and more people to the ranks of fans of system constellations. No wonder: after all, this dramatic action appeals to all those who crave visual and emotionally accessible solving their family problems.

In Russia, the name "Arrangement"® is a registered trademark for psychological services, seminars and trainings. Copyright holder - Institute of Consulting and System Solutions (ICSR). And the phrase “System Arrangements”® is a registered trademark for any printed product. Copyright holder - Psychological Foundation "IMAGO".

Psychology is a very complex science that has many different approaches to the perception of a person, to his psyche, to what is happening in his head. There are those methods that are considered scientific, since their effectiveness has been confirmed by practice for many years. But new approaches are constantly appearing, and some of them complement the scientific component of psychology (naturally, over time, when they also undergo a kind of testing_. However, many methods remain unofficial - they are not recognized by the scientific community, but at the same time they remain relevant in narrow circles. One of the most striking examples is systemic constellations - a psychological approach that, despite the fact that no one recognized it for many decades, still remains relevant and is used by an impressive number of its supporters. method? How do systemic constellations occur? This is what will be discussed in this article.

What is the essence of the method?

Systemic constellations are an unconventional approach in psychology, which is based on the fact that all human problems come from the family, or more precisely from the family system. Therefore, the essence of this method is to reproduce this system in a session in order to understand it and find the true cause of the problem. This reproduction occurs in reality and is called arrangement.

Systemic constellations have been practiced for quite some time, but have not yet received recognition from the scientific community. But people do not always turn to professionals - sometimes they are closer to what they want to believe in, and many people believe in this method. Perhaps the reason is that its creator is not only a psychologist, but also a theologian and spiritual teacher.

Founder of the movement

Since we are talking about who exactly founded this method, it is worth dwelling on this person. Systemic family constellations are the work of Bert Hellinger, a famous psychologist who was born in 1925 in Germany. He studied psychology for a long time, worked as a psychotherapist, however, as mentioned earlier, he was also a theologian. And in the eighties of the last century, Hellinger discovered and introduced the method discussed in this article. That is why it is often called “Hellinger Systemic Family Constellations.” This variation is primary and most in demand.

The roots of the method

The method of systemic constellations is an original branch of psychology, but it also has its own roots. Hellinger created this method based on several psychological movements that were relevant at that time. However, if we highlight the most important method that has had the greatest impact on system arrangements, it is Eric Berne's script analysis. The essence of this method is to analyze the life situations of each person (this psychologist also believed that all problems come from the family). He believed that each person has his own life scenario along which he moves. The script is formed in childhood under the influence of parents and the environment and can only be slightly adjusted in the future.

Hellinger acted precisely in accordance with this method, but at a certain point he realized that it had its drawbacks - as a result, he developed his own approach. Later it was called systemic constellations and is known to this day under that name. Bert Hellinger's systemic constellations are quite popular in narrow circles. It's time to figure out what exactly this approach is.

Problem situation

So, what does Systemic constellations mean - this is not just a psychological term, constellations actually take place, and this is how it happens. To begin with, there must be some kind of problematic situation of one of the participants in the psychological session. Strictly speaking, this situation represents an element of a certain system, most often a family one. This is what the group participating in the session will have to deal with. Bert Hellinger's method of systemic constellations involves the participation of all people, even those who are not familiar with the person whose problem is being considered or with anyone from his family system.

How does the arrangement take place?

The focus of the session is the client's story, his problematic situation. All participants in the session form a large circle, and the problem is presented in a plane in space between all people. Each element of the system is first represented in the imagination, and then its place in the real world is taken by a person called a deputy. During the session, he represents a specific member of the system - thus, the entire system is replenished, and everyone gets their role. This is exactly how the arrangement happens. At the same time, this is all done quietly, slowly and with concentration. Each participant concentrates on his feelings, trying to penetrate the essence of the person he is replacing in the session.

Vicarious perception

As mentioned earlier, deputies may not know either the client or his relatives, including the person they are replacing in the system. And the client doesn't tell the group anything about them, so people have to concentrate and try to figure out on their own what kind of affiliation they have. This is called vicarious perception - people must, without outside help, become the person they are replacing. Thus, the lack of information is compensated by precisely this phenomenon of vicarious perception, without which the process would simply be impossible. It is quite likely that this is what repels professional psychologists and psychiatrists from this method - there is a lot of uncertainty in it, which cannot be scientifically compensated for in order to allow calling the method of systemic constellations professional.

A source of information

The main source from which participants receive information about the problem, about the client and about the system as a whole is the so-called “field”. This is why people have to concentrate and work in silence - this is how they try to establish a connection with the field in order to obtain the necessary information about who they replace in the system, as well as what kind of “dynamics” their character has with the rest of the system participants. This is exactly how a systemic arrangement occurs - each participant turns into a deputy, gets used to his image, drawing information from the field, and then all participants try to reproduce the problem and solve it. A psychotherapist, called a constellation, guides this entire process, gives people the roles that best suit them, and also tries to help them solve the problem during the constellation process.

The main goal of this entire process is to accurately reproduce the situation so that the client can see it live, understand it and accept his problem. Only when he manages to do this is the session considered successful. Then it is believed that he no longer needs to reproduce a specific problem in the conditions of the constellation, since he was able to realize it and can now begin to solve it.

conclusions

As people who practice this method report, it really helps - participants can look at their situation from a different perspective, try to assess what is happening impartially, without associating all actions with their family and friends, which prevents them from thinking rationally. And when a person sees a situation being performed in real life by strangers, he can understand that this is really his problem - and then he can begin to look for its solution. Often, the client is not only unable to solve his problem on his own, but even to see it - this is exactly what constellation is used for. The client looks at the situation with an outsider's eye and gets a chance to see the problem in general, and then recognize his own in it.

System arrangement. How it works

System arrangement. This concept has recently appeared in our vocabulary. In this article I will try to give a general idea of ​​the methodology that many psychologists are now working with. It is called “Systemic and family constellations.”

This is a very strong and very effective help that works with a person’s individual problems.

What problems can constellations solve?

See and find a solution:

Difficulties in relationships with a partner or spouse,

Interpersonal,

Family parenting problems,

Family,

Professional difficulties,

Health problems,

And also psychological.

What is it and how does it work?

There is a so-called informational generic system field, which has its own structure and three basic laws:

Accessories;

Hierarchy (seniority);

Balance: take - give.

When one or more laws are broken, system dynamics are created that are passed down from generation to generation. The phenomenological effect of a violation, even if it happened far away, affects us or our children deeply in the past. The system itself, the information field, is outside of time and space. Any person, being a member of his family and this system, carries these dynamics within himself and may not fully live his life, transferring fragments of these systemic disorders to the present moment, which is reflected in behavior, character, illnesses, feelings.

The constellation technique allows you to change what interferes with a full life, what could not be corrected in other ways, did not work.

What happens during the placement process?

A mediator or leader has the opportunity to enter the generic field, system, find the cause and level the balance using the knowledge known to him. The system comes into balance and the dynamics disappear, which means the very problem with which the person came to the constellation disappears. Do not forget that the request for a solution to the problem must be very specific and the customer says what he wants to get in the end. If there are several problems, each of them needs a separate arrangement.

Sometimes it happens that, playing the role of a deputy in the constellation process, the person replacing someone can discover and work through his problem, which he had not even thought about before or was looking for other solutions. Miracles don't happen. Therefore, you need to understand that changes may take time, sometimes an hour, sometimes a day, sometimes a year. But the process has already started. A properly trained mediator has the ability to enter the ancestral system, find the cause and, using knowledge, level the balance. As soon as the system reaches equilibrium, the dynamics disappear. And this means that the problem with which the person came to the constellation also disappears. It simply ceases to exist. A person's life changes. He becomes himself.

Here are some problems that the constellation method works with:

Diseases (cancer, asthma, hepatitis)

Spinal diseases

Unreasonable fears

Migraine

Problems with excess weight

Infertility

Miscarriages

Addiction

Alcoholism (as a hidden departure from life)

gambling addiction

Stuttering

Poor relationships with children or parents

Suicidal tendencies

Irresistible negative desires or, on the contrary, lethargy

Passivity

Uncertainty or excessive hyperactivity

Impossibility of self-realization

Bad memory

Depression

Aggression

And a number of others.

It is very difficult to describe in a small article what is really happening.

To date, a sea of ​​articles have already been written about constellations. Professional arrangers, presenters or mediators are people who have been trained in this method for two years, and mostly already have a psychological education. Although the absence of one is not a refusal to study. Those people with whom I cross paths quite often on the topic of constellations study at the “French Institute of Family and Systemic Constellations”, directly from the Master - Idris Laor.

In order not to retell the methodology and not to quote articles by masters and teachers, I will give one abstract and one concrete example to make it clear how the arrangements work.

So, an example of what can happen if one of the family members in the family is undeservedly forgotten, erased from memory, for various reasons.

Many people know such examples when a tragedy occurs in a completely prosperous family, and a child who grew up ordinary and calm suddenly either ends up in bad company, or commits a crime, and ultimately ends up living in a prison cell.

What could be happening in terms of arrangements?

Sometimes a person's actions are not his own actions. He begins to live the life of an ancestor with whom his fate is intertwined, and who, perhaps, went exactly this way and was erased from memory. That is, it is an excluded member of the system. The ancestor was engaged in robbery, committed crimes and went to prison. All his relatives turned away from him, considering him bad, and the mother, in order to protect the child from bad influences, said that the father had died or disappeared in an unknown direction. The child was made to understand that he did not have a father. In ordinary life, this happens quite often. Nobody wants to deal with bad people, especially criminals. But at the level of the system, the species, this is a violation of one of the basic laws. In fact, for the system this is a wound and it begins to heal it, usually choosing the youngest member of the family, and through him it corrects the violation.

What's happening?

A person begins to repeat the actions and behavior of his excluded ancestor, commit robbery, hooliganism or something similar, and eventually ends up in prison.

This is an example that challenges the theme of self-attitude. The feeling that was adopted from the ancestor will also influence self-attitude. By the way, if we talk about self-installations in general, we can say that they simply do not exist. These are someone’s examples and someone’s attitudes that a person adopts in the process of life. But that's about something else.

Returning to systemic violations, we can see that the person is not to blame. He is responsible for the actions of another. He took on this responsibility without even knowing about it.

Using the method of constellations, you can go deeper into the problem, to its roots, which sometimes turn out to be at the level of the ninth generation and even deeper. Those violations that arose once do not belong to us, and we cannot understand them. But, being representatives of the family, these problems are passed on to us, as those currently living, and from us they can be passed on to the next generations.

Second example. Real.

A woman came with a problem. Her youngest son, who is 18, has lost interest in life. He is afraid to go outside, he has no desires or goals. A prosperous family, though not so long ago, moved to live in St. Petersburg from another country.

At first, the parents associated their son’s depression with the move. But time passed and nothing changed. And then the mother turned to the arrangers for help. During the arrangement, it turned out that the woman had two abortions before the birth of her second son. Forgotten children, erased from life as unborn, began to influence the life of the youngest family member. Such situations also occur quite often, when the cause of depression and loss of interest in life cannot be explained. Unborn or aborted children can “force” a person to commit suicide; they show a desire to take their place and receive the love of their parents, which they were deprived of.

What is being done in this case?

It is necessary to recognize the fact that these children are also members of the clan and system and accept them in your heart as full members of the family, give them a place, agreeing with their existence. I will not describe how acceptance occurs. This is a kind of ritual that you can see when you come to the constellation. It is impossible to describe feelings and states in any words.

Once upon a time, when I first read and watched a video about Bert Hellinger’s arrangements, I tried to understand how this could even happen, why and what was happening. Outwardly, it looks like a performance, and it is quite difficult to believe that this is reality until you yourself take part in this action. The presence of the field is felt so strongly that, being a substitute, a person actually for some time becomes the one whom he replaces. He experiences exactly those feelings that were experienced by the one whose role he plays in the arrangement.

In the end, I still want to say one thing. "Better to see once than hear a hundred times".

In this case, the saying is very accurate.

here are some more examples.

Life parallels.

Constellations often reveal stunning life parallels.

The client does not want to work, “looks for herself” in esotericism, and categorically denies the church and Christianity.

Her father did not know his own father; he was raised by his stepfather all his life.

His middle name and last name are from his stepfather.

As they say in her family, “grandmother” had a blast, but no one knew from whom...

Grandma all my life holy kept a secret.

The constellation reveals the excluded family member.

His paternal grandfather is a monk whose spiritual aspirations are directed towards Christianity.

He dedicated his life to service, spiritual quests, and prayers.

The client unknowingly repeats his fate.

Her loyalty to the system is manifested in her denial of the church and Christianity; she excluded it from her life, just like her grandfather.

Her loyalty to her excluded grandfather is manifested in spiritual quests, prayers, service, and the repetition of his fate.

Bad relationship with mom.

The client has a poor relationship with her mother. Mom constantly reproaches her: “You took everything from me!”

The root cause of this relationship is revealed in the constellation - a woman who died in childbirth.

The client’s mother carries the feelings of this woman who died in childbirth, for whom her daughter is her death, who took everything from her, took her Life.

We remove identification and for the first time the client can approach her mother and hug her with gratitude.

Money or calling.

The client has a very prestigious specialty and an excellent education.

But all her life she has been faced with the choice of either money and an exhausting, boring job, or a penniless job of her vocation that warms her soul. It’s impossible to combine money and calling.

We place the client’s deputy and two figures – Money and Vocation.

The deputy conveys the client’s feelings: “It’s as if these two figures are tearing me into two parts and I don’t know what to do.”

The figures of Money and Vocation turn into the client’s parents, who divorced when the client was very young. The client had virtually no contact with her father, who drank heavily. Mom did not approve of her daughter's communication with her father.

Usually, with a divorce and such dual messages - mom wants one thing, dad wants something completely different - it is very difficult for the child. In life he may obey one of the parents, but in his soul he will be loyal to the other parent, for example, repeating his fate.

And then in life this child, already as an adult, will constantly be faced with the problem of a tough choice, “Either this, or that.” You will see confrontation in all areas of life.

And he will not be able to combine “Both this and that” in life.

Life will constantly present you with the problem of choice.

And the key point here is the choice “between mom and dad” and when the long-awaited union of parents in the heart occurs, the problem of choice disappears.

It becomes possible to accept and both at the same time, and the calling begins to bring great joy and big money.

Enuresis in a child.

Girl, 11 years old. Mom died, dad is in prison, the girl is being raised by her grandparents.

The child has psoriasis and enuresis.

Enuresis is the unshed tears of a child.

We worked individually using arrangement pictures and metaphorical cards with psoriasis symptoms.

Let's start with a drawing. I ask her to draw psoriasis and the one who is hiding behind this symptom, then the one who was hiding behind the symptom - in the second picture, without the image of psoriasis.

The girl drew a picture of a man and got scared of him, started whining and asked him to throw away the picture.

We continued our work using figures and metaphorical cards.

It is interesting that the girl’s enuresis stopped immediately after the arrangement, although we worked on another symptom.

P.S. The psoriasis went away within a few months.

Bert Hellinger suggests the following to stop enuresis in a child:

… “Some parents encounter a problem when their already relatively large child wets himself in his sleep. For these children, you can tell a story with small scenes, such as turning off a water tap or fixing a gutter.

For example. Little Red Riding Hood came to visit her grandmother. She was about to enter the house when she noticed that the gutter was broken and water was dripping onto the porch of the house. Then Little Red Riding Hood said to herself: “First I will fix the gutter.” She went to the barn and got some resin and a ladder. I set up a ladder, climbed up to the roof, and sealed the hole in the gutter to prevent water from dripping onto the porch. Only after this Little Red Riding Hood entered her grandmother’s house.

Or. One morning one of the seven dwarfs comes to Snow White and complains that the roof has been dripping on him all night and he woke up in a completely wet bed. Snow White said: “Now I will do everything.” When all the gnomes had gone to work, she climbed onto the roof and, finding that one tile had simply slid to the side, straightened it. When the dwarf returned from work in the evening, he was so tired that he even forgot to ask Snow White about the roof. The next morning he didn’t even remember about it, because everything was fine.

One father, whose daughter had this problem, told her these stories, and they immediately had an effect. The next morning the bed was dry. But at the same time he learned something else interesting.

Previously, when he told his daughter stories before bed, she listened very carefully and made sure that he did not miss anything or add anything of his own. But the fairy tale about Little Red Riding Hood, told with changes, did not cause the slightest protest in her; she took these changes for granted. This suggests that the child's knowing soul is uniting with the narrator. The soul wants to find a solution, but it should not be voiced verbatim, then the child, with the help of understanding and courage, will be able to do something new.

Of course, the child understood what his father wanted to say, otherwise nothing would have changed. But without naming the problem itself, the father showed respect for the child’s shame. The child felt deep respect for himself, felt how carefully his father treated him, and was able to react accordingly.

The child himself knows that he wets the bed; there is no need to tell him about it. He also knows not to do this. He doesn't need to talk about it. When he is given advice or reminded of his problem, he feels humiliated. If such a child follows the advice, he loses some of his own dignity, while his parents “gain” dignity. The child defends himself without taking advice. It is precisely because I give him advice that he must act differently in order to maintain his self-esteem. Dignity is the main thing for any person, and it is also important for a child. Only if the child feels that the advice was given to him with love will he follow the advice.”

Life success.

The client is a teenager, 16 years old. Considers himself a failure. My parents divorced several years ago.

The client will soon have to enter a very prestigious military school, with huge competition and difficult exams.

We put the client’s deputy, his mother, his father and the figures “Life Success” and “Military School”.

The “Life Success” figure stands facing away from the client.

We work with the acceptance of both parents, the acceptance of the strength of the masculine gender through the father, with the acceptance of Success.

And although Hellinger says that our success has the face of our mother, this arrangement shows the following - the client’s success has the face of his father. His success comes to him through his father, through his male gender.

After the placement, the boy enters the treasured military school the first time and successfully continues his studies there.

Infertility.

The client came before the wedding - she is entering into a second marriage. Request - infertility.

She is divorced from her first husband, the relationship is still incomplete.

She left her husband, although she loved him very much. He explains his departure by saying that it will be better for him.

In the first marriage there was an unborn child (abortion).

In the constellation, it turns out that the client cannot look at her unborn child, and the child’s substitute is transmitting a lot of aggression to the client.

Property.

The client divorces her husband, and somehow it turns out that her property (2 apartments) remains with him. We put her, her husband and property. The figure of the property immediately sits at the feet of her husband's deputy like a child, and the husband supports him. The client's surrogate is unable to look at the child. It turns out that the client and her husband had an unborn child (miscarriage).

We work with the situation and the client, despite the severe pain, accepts her child into her heart and stands next to her husband, supporting the child.

In this case, the property merely indicated the situation with their child and called them to look at him.

Aimlessness of existence and loss of strength.

The client does not have any goals in her life, does not know what she wants in her life, constantly feels a breakdown, does not live - but exists.

The arrangement shows her identification (the strongest connection of her Soul) with her unborn sister - her mother had an abortion.

And the client carries all the feelings and emotions of this unborn child.

After the arrangement, the client felt the Taste of Life for the first time.

I look for you in all men.

The client has a recurring love scenario. All her men begin to perceive her as a sister. And she forgives her men too much. She had many men, but the relationship with them does not suit the client. She is looking for her one and only.

The arrangement shows that in all her men she is looking for her unborn older brother. Her dad had a first love - and in that relationship there was an unborn child (abortion).

The client confirms that since childhood she dreamed of an older brother. And in her relationships with men, she projected onto them the role of her older brother. Therefore, she forgave them a lot - after all, a brother is forever... And she was disappointed in them - not finding the one whom she was looking for in them...

The same thing happens to men who have an unborn sister. They begin to look for it in all women - and do not find it...

Sometimes there are situations when a man begins to look for his unborn brother in other men. He becomes a homosexual - out of great love for his unborn brother - he needs to feel him next to him - in another man...

Another variant of homosexuality is when a person has a strong identification with a person of the opposite sex from his family. The same can be said about lesbian love.

Love triangle.

The client has a difficult relationship with two men at the same time. One is much older than her, the other is her age. Her father and brother died in the accident.

The arrangement shows that the two men next to her replace her dad and brother.

Her soul thus tries to revive the people dear to her.

Asthma.

The client has a young daughter with asthma.

The arrangement shows the daughter’s deep connection with her great-grandfather, who died of pneumonia during the war.

After the arrangement, a significant improvement in the girl’s health occurs.

Panic fear.

The client has a panicky fear that he will be killed.

We begin individual work on the figures and it turns out that in the client’s family there is a Don Cossack who killed a man.

And the client wants to pay with his life for that sin...

The intertwining of destinies comes to the surface, and the source of this fear becomes clear. And the fear goes away.

Money.

The client's request is money. If you want to earn good money, it doesn’t work out, and when you manage to earn money, the money slips through your fingers.

The arrangement shows the main reasons:

Earning a lot is dangerous - they can be dispossessed and exiled. This is the dispossessed family of her great-grandfather.

And the money slips through her fingers - she spends it on her mother’s abortions.

After the arrangement - six months later - the money situation changes dramatically for the better.

I am also at war, like my grandfather.

The client has tense relationships with people, a lot of “life and death” conflicts... He fights with everyone for no reason or no reason. He needs enemies to fight with and to hate. He needs confrontation.

"The man who strives for war does not think about whether his enemy wants to fight. The man who strives for war is blind. He never looks at the enemy, he simply rushes at him. He does not want to look at the enemy. Essentially, "Any enemy he encounters. He does not need to see the enemy, he himself creates the enemy and rushes at him. When a battle rages inside a person, enemies appear from the outside." Osho.

The client's grandfather died in the War. And the grandson has a strong identification with his grandfather.

He, like his grandfather, remained in the War...

Part of the soul of a person who has been in war remains on the battlefield.

Understanding comes and the situation changes - the client understands that he is the grandson of the Warrior, but he does not need to fight in order to prove his love and belonging to his grandfather in this way.

He may remember his grandfather differently.

Be a Winner in life.

I've had Great Lives. Past life experience.

Sometimes the arrangement reveals karmic experience from the client’s past lives.

The client’s life was going through a series of natural disasters: all the equipment in the house broke down, a brick almost fell on her head, a wheel fell off the car, and a few days later the car was stolen... A state of frozen emotions and body. The Snow Queen. And there are no desires at all.

The arrangement reveals an old hermit saint who achieved samadhi in an abandoned cave. The client’s desires stood near this cave - they strived for the spiritual world, but there were no clues in the material world.

We put the figure of the client’s Life - it seems to her unsightly and small compared to those Great Lives. The client says the phrase: “I had great destinies in my family.”

And all participants in the arrangement come to understand that the phrase should be different: “I had Great Lives.”

At the same time, the family-tribal layer opens and the client’s unborn older sister appears.

At the end of the arrangement, the client, standing in the flow of energy, embraces her Life and Purpose.

For another client, during the constellation, a soul mate appeared in the form of a beloved man and the mutual desire of these souls for each other through many lives. And the following message went: “We are lucky to meet in this life, we do not meet every life, so appreciate me in this life...”

Motherhood and Demeter.

A pregnant client (3 months pregnant) has a threat of miscarriage and is bleeding.

We begin work at the archetypal level. Out of 70 cards, the client randomly takes out one card - and on it is the Greek Goddess Demeter - the Goddess of Motherhood.

The message of the Goddess is: “There is blood on you - look there”...

There is indeed a small drop of blood on the client's white blouse.

The client had an abortion.

We are working with the situation. The next day, the client felt a strong connection with the child, calmness and discharge completely stopped.

Envy and pride.

The client often encounters other people's envy directed at her.

We put her and the figure of envy. Two murders appear in the family.

The client’s family included wealthy industrialists and philanthropists, whose life motto was to give 80% of profits to charity.

Instead of spiritual tithe (10%) - give 80% of profits.

With the best intentions, her philanthropist ancestor wanted to do good so that everyone around him would be rich and happy. May the hand of the giver not fail...

The figure of envy turned into the figure of a murderer and spoke about justice... The ancestor put himself above other people. He was unusually generous. He considered himself extraordinary, exceptional, generous... Spiritual pride led to envy.

And envy led to murder.

As a result, it becomes clear that pride and envy are two sides of the same coin...

Liberation through generations.

The client's request is relationships with men, hidden hatred of men.

She was married three times, now divorced. She has a child from her first husband; she was unable to get pregnant in subsequent marriages, although her health was fine.

We worked individually.

Also, during the constellation, the client remembers two murders in Roda - her uncle killed his mother, and her aunt killed her husband.

We identify the root/primary cause that led to such consequences.

This is a woman who killed her newborn children.

She gave birth and killed. A lot of killed babies...

We bow to the fate of the murdered babies, not understanding how she could do this, after all, she is their mother!

We look at the situation again - we step into her role - and the understanding comes that she could not have acted differently.

She already had children who needed to be fed, but then there were hungry times and it would not have been possible to feed everyone...

And she had to choose... She was ready to kill herself better, to kill her husband, from whom she had to give birth, but then no one would survive... And she killed her babies, asking God for liberation...

And generations later - this liberation came - her descendants heard the cry of her soul...

The client’s uncle fulfills that woman’s wish to die and at the same time, carrying the feelings of the murdered babies, takes revenge on his innocent mother. He carries the feelings of those babies, he sees that woman in his mother. And this identification leads to murder.

And the client’s aunt carries within herself the feelings of that woman for her husband, her hatred for the husband from whom she had to give birth and kill her children. And the aunt kills her husband, seeing him as the husband of that woman, looking at him through her eyes.

And the client brings the aunt’s figurine to that woman and herself says the following phrase: “Now you are free, I freed you.”

This situation provides a very clear example of strong identification and its consequences.

And Hellinger’s words become clear that behind all even unrealistically cruel events there is Love.

"Slave work"

At a client's place of workdifficultieswith immediate superiors.

They loaded her with everything possible and at the same time treated her like a silent slave. And they don't even give you the opportunity to quit...

The arrangement reveals a repressed great-grandfather who was forced to remain silent in order to save the life of his friend-boss, who betrayed him.

The great-grandfather rebelled against the system, which was walking over corpses, breaking the will and lives of people... “The system crushed him” - these are the client’s words about her great-grandfather.

Great-grandfather's life was broken, but his strong inner core was not broken.

But we see that the situation with my great-grandfather is not initial, that these are the consequences of something deeper and more ancient...

Let's go deeper - this is ancient Egypt - the construction of the pyramids.

And some person is crushed by a huge block of stone, due to the fact that the system for lifting stones has broken/failed.

“The system crushed him,” the client’s words emerge. This is where they belong, where they come from...

Slave labor in the name of the Gods.

The pyramid stands for Eternity, but it was built by people who lost their lives on this work.

Very often the phrases in our speech are not random, they remind us of something from the depths of the Soul, from the depths of the Ages...

Each system arrangement according to Bert Hellinger is individual and is made according to the client’s request.

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Relationships in couples.

"...The attraction of the soul sweeps away the dam of false decency..."

On system constellations there is an amazing opportunity:

feel what your partner feels towards you;

understand why your relationship is developing this way;

understand why he/she is like this;

understand why he/she acted this way;

see the hidden reasons behind this or that attitude;

realize your “love script” and, if necessary, change it.

You will see how the law of successful relationships works in a couple - maintaining a balance between “give” and “take”.

Loneliness and other problems between men and women often go back several generations.

For example, the so-called “crown of celibacy” leads to the fact that from generation to generation, mostly girls are born to single mothers, who, out of loyalty, then repeat the fate of their mother, grandmother, and the fate of women of their kind.

Systemic family constellations allow you to break this chain of repeating events and find your own destiny.

Conflicts can arise if a wife lacks a father and she looks for a father in her husband, puts her husband in her father’s place and expects from him what she did not receive in childhood.

Or the husband transfers the role of his mother to his wife.

Usually, a man who has a bad relationship with his mother is in constant search for “his one and only,” changes women like gloves and does not find satisfaction, because no one can replace his only mother.

Very often a person cannot find happiness in his personal life due to identification with the first love of his mother/father.

For example, a mother unconsciously sees her first love in her son and continues to keep her adult son close to her in every possible way - starting to get sick, etc.

Or the daughter, being intertwined with her father’s first love, does not find contact with her mother, sees her as a rival, does not behave like a daughter, and cannot leave the parental family for her own life.

In already established families, a critical moment may come at the birth of a child, when all the wife’s feelings are directed towards the child, and the husband fades into the background.

From the point of view of the family system, priority should be given to the relationship between husband and wife, and the relationship between parents and child is given second place, since a child is the result of love between husband and wife.

Abortion almost always leads to a break in a couple's relationship.

Why does a love triangle arise? What to do?

The arrangement allows you to unravel the tangle of complex relationships.

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Divorce. What to do?

Parting with a loved one brings enormous pain to one partner and enormous guilt to the other.

“My dreams and feelings come to you for the hundredth time along the path of pilgrims...”

The arrangement helps to complete the relationship so that it is truly completed and the person becomes free for something new.

If there are children in the family, they should know that what happens between parents does not concern them, that it happens that a husband and wife separate, but they still have a mom and dad who love them.

It happens that women prevent the child from meeting his father.

And the child loves both parents - after all, he is half from mom and half from dad.

But he is faced with a difficult choice: “if he is loyal to his father, he will be guilty before his mother,” or “if he is loyal to his mother, he will be guilty before his father.”

In appearance, the child is obedient to the parent who wins, but secretly - to the one who loses.

This is his compromise.

So there can be no triumph here, and it is completely pointless to achieve victory in this.

A child is always like the parent who, for example, loses something in his or her destiny when they separate.

If a child does not obey one parent, then in most cases he follows the value ideas of the other parent.

Such disobedience is again just another kind of obedience and loyalty.

If one of the parents directly or indirectly tells the child: “Don’t become like your mother/your father,” then the child will follow the example of that particular parent.

A woman should respect her ex-husband as the father of her children. The child must feel it.

After a divorce, it is better for a woman to keep her ex-husband’s surname until her next marriage, but under no circumstances return her maiden name. A maiden name is a step back. By leaving the surname of our ex-husband, we express respect for what happened between us, that period and feelings of our lives.

Constellations will help you find a way out of the difficult life situation of divorce with the least loss for you and your children.

Perhaps you will learn to measure the events of your life for joy.

Do you know that there is joy in loss? It's called liberation from the past.

Get the opportunity to communicate with people who are attracted by an invisible magnet, promising the miracle of inner discoveries.

"Something new is knocking on my Life,

It's not even knocking yet

and walks around, rustling mysteriously,

beckons and promises something very good.

He'll be in soon."

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Abortion.

Bert Hellinger's constellation method places great emphasis on post-abortion experiences. Indeed, during the constellation, a lot of problems related specifically to a pregnancy that was terminated in the past are often revealed.

These problems may concern the failed mother herself or children conceived after abortions.

A typical problem for a woman after an abortion is an unconscious desire to be reunited with her aborted children (i.e., to her own death), hence severe and life-threatening diseases such as fibroids and uterine cancer, breast cancer, alcoholism, and trauma.

In addition, simultaneously with abortion in its classical sense, “abortion of relationships” between partners often occurs.

No less serious problems are typical for children conceived after abortions.

These children have a weakened connection with their mother and a suppressed feeling of closeness with her.

But the worst thing is the child’s unconscious feeling of guilt towards unborn brothers and sisters (“I live instead of you”).

Such a child cannot find the right place in life, tries to live a life that is not his own, hence often homosexuality, failures in his personal life, drug addiction, alcoholism, life-threatening hobbies, illness, leaving home.

It is especially worth saying that the benefits of constellations on the topic of aborted children are usually so obvious that they impress even experienced psychotherapists.

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Diseases.

Severe illnesses or recurring painful symptoms in a systemic arrangement are often a consequence of the special role of the sick person within his family.

Often a person unconsciously decides to get sick in memory of some deceased family members, thus demonstrating his love for departed ancestors. In this case, the disease acts as a kind of reminder of these relatives.

In other cases, it may be, for example, a repetition of the difficult fate of a deceased relative, an unconscious atonement for someone’s guilt, etc.

In constellations regarding infertility and miscarriage, difficult events that have occurred in the family are usually identified: repeated loss of children by women in the family, the death of a woman in childbirth, or serious illnesses after childbirth.

Infertility and miscarriage are the result of a woman’s fear and unconscious protection from a situation that threatens her life and health.

The liberating effect of the arrangement neutralizes both fear itself and the cause of recurring tragedies in the family.

Also, using the arrangement, you can see the effect of a particular medicine on your body.

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Arrangement for removing a recurring negative scenario.

Death, illness, loss, accidents, conflicts, divorces, the choice of unsuccessful partners can occur according to the same scenario, or with the same time pattern.

For example, once a year or several years, on certain dates, etc.

In systemic constellations in such cases, an event not accepted by members of the clan in the past is revealed, for example, the birth of a child, death, marriage, divorce.

Resolving the problem during the constellation allows you to free yourself from this scenario.

The difficult fates of ancestors are often reflected in the fate of their descendants. Descendants may unconsciously repeat, to one degree or another, the difficult fate of their ancestors or, conversely, live “not their own lives,” experiencing unconscious fear of such a fate.

Family members excluded even in the distant past, silence about ancestors with a difficult fate often serve as the reason that, for the sake of balance, one of the descendants excludes himself from the family and clan (leaves, lives in difficult conditions, is content with little, is deprived of freedom, strives for death ).

The arrangement allows you to interrupt the repetition of a negative scenario.

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Arrangement for removing dependencies.

Alcohol, smoking, drugs.

The arrangement allows you to identify the causes of addictions and free yourself from them.

Alcoholism is bitter, unshed tears.

Often mothers of children whose fathers suffer from alcohol addiction forbid their children to accept their father even in the shower for fear that the child will repeat his fate.

The arrangement will help the child accept his father and his destiny, but at the same time allow the child to be free from loyalty to the father's destiny and not have problems with alcohol.

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Arrangement to relieve fears, panic attacks.

Sometimes we do not realize that many of our actions are dictated by various unconscious fears that we adopted in our parental family.

Your grandmother’s first husband died in the war, and you cannot start a family for fear of losing a loved one. The fear is so strong that it is better not to have a family at all than to experience this feeling of loss again.

Your grandmother turned out to be an adopted daughter in someone else's family and felt lonely and unloved all her life. You are dating a man who you do not need only because of the fear of loneliness.

A person can feel some fears even on a physical level, when “the body shrinks with fear and the soul sinks into the heels.”

The arrangement allows you to see and eliminate the causes of fears.

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Excess weight.

The arrangement helps to identify your individual reasons that affect your weight and stabilize it through acceptance of these reasons.

It is possible that this weight is not at all excessive, it simply reminds its owner of something.

For example, that you have unborn brothers and sisters, that someone in your family died of hunger, or something else.

Sometimes they say about a person “Eats for two.” Think about it, who is this second one? Perhaps it is your unborn brother or sister.

Nowadays, times are different and people do not die of hunger, but the unconscious, inherited fear of starvation forces a person to eat for future use.

In the case of abortion, a woman, with her enlarged body, seems to carry her unborn children to term.

A man's big belly may mean that he does not accept his mother, but his body, his belly takes the shape of his pregnant mother's belly, remembering the time when he accepted her completely while in the womb.

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Harmonious relationships with parents.

For relationships with parents to become harmonious, it is necessary:

observe the “law of hierarchy in the family”, i.e. “Parents are big, I’m small,” “Parents give, and I take;

do not try to correct what was difficult in the family, which can no longer be corrected (the feeling “if I give up something, then perhaps I will be able to correct something);

do not take on someone else’s guilt (for example, a mother has an abortion, and her children bear the guilt)

get out of family entanglements (for example, when a son is intertwined with the fate of his grandfather, he behaves in his parents’ family as the main one, he is out of place and cannot take resources from his parents).

get out of identifications with previous partners of parents;

restore the movement of love for parents interrupted in childhood.

Bowing to parents is very important. It carries respect, humility and acceptance. Bowing balances some things. The bow is done slowly to see what is happening in the soul.

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Basic arrangement “Me and my place in the parental family.”

A person’s place in Life largely depends on what place he occupies in his parental family.

Find your Place in the Sun!

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Arrangement "Area of ​​influence".

The arrangement will show you in whose sphere of parental influence you are, where your energy is directed (perhaps all your energy is spent on reaching one of the parents who is “in service” - busy with something difficult in the system, and perhaps all your forces are aimed at supporting/keeping the parent in life).

This arrangement will help you bow to the fate of your parent, see the difficult (if any) that separates you and go into your own Life.

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Relationships with friends, colleagues, business partners, neighbors.

Colleagues at work, business partners, neighbors or friends are often forced to play for you the role of some members of your family with whom family relationships are disrupted.

Restoring relationships with these family members during the constellation leads to resolution in relationships at work or in business.

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Decent job.

Often it is not possible to find a job that meets all the wishes: the pay was decent, the work itself was pleasant, the team was good, etc.

The arrangement allows you to find the event in the family that hinders professional success and resolve it safely.

Also, if a person does not accept one of the parents, the place of this parent cannot remain empty, the person puts work or religion, or something else in the parent place. But this place has the qualities of a parent rejected by him and the person soon becomes disillusioned - changes jobs, changes religion - becomes a Buddhist, for example. And his whole life is an eternal search - the search for a parent who is not accepted by him.

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Money.

"Do not attribute human vices to money..."

Very often, money for us is colored by the experiences and life experiences of our ancestors.

For example, the message “Money is dangerous” may be passed down from generation to generation on an unconscious level.

Perhaps this is a message from our great-grandfather, who was dispossessed of kulaks, or from a distant ancestor who was killed for money.

And in our time of peace, their descendant refuses money, consciously not understanding why he cannot earn a normal income...

Messages from ancestors that prevent you from having money can be different:

“In order to earn money, you have to work hard and hard,”

"Your work is worthless"

"Dirty money",

"Your time is worthless"

"There is no such thing as easy money"

"A woman can only get money from a man"

“You have to pay for everything,” and so on...

Then it was a different time/another era/other events and their beliefs about money were appropriate.

The arrangement helps you see and establish your personal relationship with money, with respect for the messages of your ancestors.

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Self-realization.

Everything seems to be fine - the business is thriving, I like the work, and the people around me are wonderful, but something is missing.

I want my soul to sing. And I just can’t understand why at times I feel drawn to something...

The arrangement can help you see what goal it makes sense for you to strive for: main and secondary goals, importance, reality or unnecessaryness.

In general, decide whether this goal is yours or whether it was unknowingly borrowed from some member of your family.

And also remove the obstacles that interfere with your movement towards the goal, help you make a choice in favor of a goal.

The goal itself will tell you whether you need to continue moving towards it or not.

The arrangement allows you to identify the aspirations of your soul and work with obstacles that prevent you from doing what you are drawn to.

In the process of constellation for self-realization, the client receives permission from his ancestors for what he wants to do.

In the process of moving towards a goal, we work with an obstacle that prevents movement towards the goal and its achievement.

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Arrangement of creative ideas.

Designed for creative individuals - writers, screenwriters, directors, actors, artists, musicians, scientists.

This arrangement can become a generator of new ideas, characters, and images for you.

It can show the development of a plot or relationship from the point of view of the writer/writer/musician and how the viewer, reader or audience relates to the script/work.

This arrangement is useful when you are in a state of creative “stupor” or when you want to clarify the characters of some characters, or something else.

It also allows you to try out different options for continuing the work. Authors get the opportunity to see the distribution of roles in a new way.

It is possible to consider not roles and characters, but character traits.

Then, for the main characters, a set of several basic character traits is compiled and the interaction of characters with such sets of qualities is considered.

In the same way, scientists can observe the development of events and see the possible result of introducing into a given situation the four elements they consider in turn: one, the other, one and the other, neither the first nor the second. Recommended for video recording.

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"Bliss of the Chakras"

Yoga teaches you not just to control your body, but to manage your life.

Yoga begins with self-love.

Anyone who practices yoga receives as a gift health, vigor and a special state - a peaceful triumph that reigns deep inside and manifests itself in everything - in the gait, in the smile, in the corners of the eyes.

Yoga fills what you already have with energy and meaning.

This unique arrangement is aimed at harmonizing the client’s energy centers and helps to gain a sense of internal integrity.

Chakras represent the keys to our physical and mental health.

The seven chakras serve as the main distributors of subtle energy within the human body.

The colors of the chakras correspond to the colors of the rainbow: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet.

A constant and unchanging balance of the chakras gives excellent health and a sense of overall well-being.

An imbalance of any chakra can have the most profound impact on our physical and emotional well-being.

There are many ways to influence the energy of the chakras: yoga, pranayama (full breathing), the use of crystals and gemstones, the use of the sounds of Tibetan singing bowls.

The “Bliss of the Chakras” arrangement uses the music of Tibetan singing bowls, and the information “read from the lotus petals” is exclusive and gives a new impetus to increased awareness and understanding of the inner world.

Powerful healing powers, spiritual and moral treasures dormant in everyone are awakened and activated.

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Arrangement "Specks of Dreams".

"Wake up and shake off the sandy dust of dreams,

But the rocks of imagination stand unshakable..."

Sometimes the same dream occurs several times, sinks into the soul, disturbs and calls somewhere...

You can look at it in arrangement and understand something for yourself, because dreams are a manifestation of our unconscious.

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Arrangement "Present-past-future".

In this arrangement you will see where you are now. Are you stuck in the past, are you living in the present, are you looking to the future?

You will be able to acknowledge and let go of your past in order to live happily in the present and look to the future with confidence.

People are accustomed to mechanically separating time from themselves, because it is easier and more common for a person to do just that. And the clock, which seems to us almost a source of time, to a large extent contributes to the feeling that it is something extraneous.

In the same way, thoughtlessly (and even frivolously) we divide a single time into the past - present - future, forgetting that time is not a dial with divisions. In fact, it is very important to understand the coherence and inseparability of the present, past and future.

The present is not a moment, not a boundary of separation, but a time where past and future merge. The past is always the grain, source or root for the present. The past lives in the present, determines it, and there is nothing in the present that does not stem from the past.

It is necessary to understand the second, basic meaning of the expression “present time”. The present means true, genuine, genuine, in which you can act, change something, including influencing the future.

Perhaps someone will want to add another figure to their arrangement - Eternity.

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Arrangement "Pieces of my soul".

It just seems like they pay for everything with money.

For everything truly important, they pay with pieces of the soul.

Shamans have a technique for returning lost pieces of the soul.

This can also be done in arrangement and gain integrity.

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Arrangement "Spirit-Soul-Body".

An individual living on Earth is a unity of three components: Body, Soul and Spirit, each of which has its own program.

From birth, the struggle of programs begins, and this struggle is called Life.

Consequently: a person from birth to natural death is provided with all types of internal contradictions.

Through the Body, an individual receives from parents hereditary diseases, ancestral karma, and often ancestral curses and ancestral debts.

Through the Soul - the karma of reincarnation and the testing of negative qualities through trials.

Through the Spirit - striving forward, the evolution of energy, and perhaps a specific mission.

By mission, we understand a special task (assignment) that is included in the individual’s program, and for the fulfillment of which he is embodied on planet Earth, or rather, sent by certain forces of the Cosmos at the exact time allotted for the completion of this task.

The soul has the greatest power because spirit and body merge in it, turning it into the seat of personality and influence of a person.

The will, intellect and emotions of a person are found in it.

Sometimes the soul itself also takes the reins of government into its own hands through a person’s reason, creating a world of concepts that controls a person.

In order for the spirit to control, it must receive the approval of the soul, otherwise the spirit is helpless in controlling the soul and body. The decision depends on the soul, because the person’s personality lives in it.

In fact, the soul is the axis of man's entire being, because his will belongs to it.

Only if the soul wishes to reconcile itself will the spirit be able to control the whole person.

If it rebels against taking such a position, the spirit is powerless to control.

This explains the importance of free will in man.

Man is not an automaton controlled by God according to His will, but rather he has complete independent power to decide and choose for himself.

He has an organ of manifestation of will, and he can decide to follow God's will or resist it.

God's desire is that the spirit, being the noblest part of the human being, should rule over it completely.

However, the will - the decisive part of individuality - belongs to the soul.

And the will determines whether the spirit, the body, or itself will control.

There is a constant connection and interaction between body and spirit.

Everything that happens in a person’s soul during his life is significant and necessary only because the entire life of our body and soul, all thoughts, feelings, volitional acts that originate in sensory perceptions are closely connected with the life of the spirit.

The spirit is imprinted, it is formed, all acts of soul and body are preserved in it.

Under their formative influence, the life of the spirit and its orientation towards good or evil develops.

The life of the body is needed only for the formation of the spirit and ceases when its formation is completed, or its direction is completely determined.

The life of body and soul can be compared to the life of a bunch of grapes, full of beauty and charm.

Its nutrition with the juices of the vine, with the dew of heaven, sprinkling the delicate fluff of juicy berries, ceases, and only the pomace remains, doomed to rot; but the life of the grape bunches continues in the wine obtained from them.

Everything valuable, beautiful and fragrant that was produced in living berries under the beneficial effects of light and solar heat passes into it.

And just as wine does not spoil, but continues to live its own life after the death of the grape, becoming better and more precious the longer it lives, so in the immortal human spirit eternal life and endless development continue after the death of the body and the cessation of the activity of the soul.

The Spirit-Soul-Body alignment has a healing and inspiring effect in all areas of life.

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Arrangement “He, she and soul” their relationship"

The arrangement helps to understand the relationship with your loved one.

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Arrangement according to the Tarot arcana.

Structural arrangement for combining 4 elements in a person:

Strength - wands, fire, strength, energy.

Abundance/fullness - disks, earth, fullness of Life, wealth, abundance.

Mind/clear consciousness - swords, air, thinking.

Intuition - cups, water, feelings, inner child, heart.

This resource arrangement has a healing effect in all areas of a person’s life.

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Arrangement "Yin and Yang".

The life force Qi arises as a result of the transformations of Yin and Yang.

Yin and Yang are the two fundamental forces that create the universe and bring it into harmony through their interaction.

These two opposing, conflicting forces are present in every action.

They symbolize two opposing energies, which, changing and interacting, represent the dynamics of the world.

This symbol suggests that reality consists of the interaction of opposites and opposing principles.

Yin and Yang depend on each other, create constant movement, rising and falling like waves, and maintaining mutual harmony.

Just as a man and a woman are partners in dance, in love and in life, Yin and Yang are not only opposites, but also harmoniously complement each other.

Human nature tends to underestimate the power of Yin, that is, the power of non-manifestation, the power of weakness.

Projection, manifestation, expression are associated with the masculine Yang energy.

But Yin is a force as real as Yang!

The arrangement helps you accept your masculine and feminine parts. harmonize relationships with the opposite sex.

A very strong arrangement.

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Arrangement "My favorite fairy tale".

As children, each of us had our own favorite fairy tale.

A child’s heart is touched by a fairy tale that reflects either his own fate or the fate of another family member/family with whom he is associated.

This arrangement helps to see the deep generic scenario of a person’s Life.

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Arrangement "Body parts".

Structural arrangement for working with symptoms.

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Arrangement "Blooming tree".

Structural arrangement of the 5 primary elements of man:

air

water

Earth

fire

tree

Yin-Yang and the Five Elements are the basis of the Universe.

Arising from the interaction of Yin and Yang, the Five Basic Elements (Wu Xing) - the five basic types of energy - are the basis of the universe.

Any system that exists in the Universe, be it a person, a company, a country or a planet, represents a stage of dynamic interaction, and, ideally, balance between the five primary elements.

To create harmony, it is necessary to maintain a dynamic balance between the five primary elements in everything.

A person, his body, an organization, a country - absolutely everything - is healthy and in harmony with himself and with the Universe if the five primary elements are balanced in them.

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Constellation "Love, sex and spirituality".

What role do Love, Sex and Spirituality play in your Life?

Is it always possible to combine them?

The arrangement will help bring these areas of your Life into harmony.

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Greek Goddesses. Archetypes of femininity.

Greek goddesses are female images that have lived in the human imagination for more than three millennia. They personify women's aspirations and embody behavioral models.

ARTEMIS:goddess of the hunt and the moon, rival and sister.

ATHENA: goddess of wisdom and crafts, strategist and daughter of her father.

HESTIA: goddess of the hearth and temple, wise woman and spinster aunt.

HERA: goddess of marriage, guardian of duty and wife.

DEMETER: goddess of fertility and agriculture, teacher and mother.

PERSEPHONE: girl and ruler of the underworld,

a receptive woman and a mother's daughter. APHRODITE: goddess of love and beauty, creative woman and lover. HECATE: sorceress, matchmaker, mediator.

Greek goddesses are beautiful and strong. They follow exclusively their own impulses, not knowing the dictates of external circumstances.

These goddesses are different from each other. Each of them has its own positive and potentially negative properties. Mythology shows what is important to them, and in a metaphorical form tells us about the capabilities of women similar to them.

I also came to believe that the Greek goddesses of Olympus, each unique and some even hostile to each other, represent a metaphor for a woman's inner diversity and inner conflicts, thereby demonstrating her complexity and versatility.

Every woman potentially contains All goddesses.

When several goddesses fight for dominance over a woman, she must decide for herself which aspects of her essence will be dominant and at what time, otherwise she will swing from one extreme to another.

In Ancient Greece, women knew well that their place in life and occupation were inextricably linked with the power of one or another goddess, which, accordingly, each of them should have revered.

Goddesses live in the inner world of modern women as archetypes and, claiming complete dominance over their subjects, as in Ancient Greece, they take what is due to them.

A woman can remain in the power of a certain archetype for some time or even her entire life, without even knowing which of the goddesses she serves.

Children from birth have characteristics that are inherent to varying degrees in various goddess archetypes - they are energetic or calm, willful or flexible, curious or not very curious, prone to loneliness or sociable.

By the age of two or three, the girl clearly manifests the qualities inherent in one or another goddess. An obedient little girl, content to carry out her mother's wishes, is as different from a baby who is able to leave home on her own to explore her surroundings, as Persephone is from Artemis.

Having plans for the future of their child, parents support some goddesses and suppress others.

If parents want their daughter to be “sweet, gentle and pretty” or “mother’s little helper,” they welcome the qualities of Persephone and Demeter in her.

A girl who knows what she wants and strives to have the same privileges as her brother might be called "willful," although she is merely an assertive Artemis.

When Athena is discovered in her, she may be advised to “behave like other girls.”

Often the behavior pattern manifested in a child does not find approval from the family.

The child’s inherent image of the goddess interacts in one way or another with family expectations.

If parents condemn a certain goddess, this does not mean that her influence on the girl will cease. A girl can learn suppress natural impulses for her, but at the same time she loses self-respect. Suppression of natural inclinations only leads to the fact that the girl begins to feel her own falsehood.

Parents who encourage and support their daughter's natural development give her the opportunity to do what is important to her; As a result, the girl feels good and confident.

Sometimes a particular archetype is awakened by an unexpected meeting or event, and then the goddess personifying it actively intervenes in a woman’s life.

For example, the helplessness of another person can imperiously demand a woman to give up all her affairs and turn her into a caring Demeter.

Money can force a selfless woman who values ​​truly human relationships to become an Athena, busy looking for contracts that provide a decent income.

Falling in love threatens a woman by changing her life priorities. Habitual schemes are not able to maintain their power at the archetypal level for long.

The awakening of Aphrodite may lead to a fall in Athena's influence, and then love overshadows the importance of professional success.

Marital infidelity devalues ​​Hera's marriage bonds.

Activation of the negative aspects of the goddess under the influence of certain circumstances contributes to the development of psychiatric symptoms.

Arrangement "Karmic path"

The karmic path of the individual, the goal of your karmic path, its Gifts and pitfalls.

For this arrangement, your date of birth is required, since the karmic path of a person is determined with the help of astrologersical computing.

Astrological constellations.

We all live in an ocean of planetary cosmic influences. Despite the fact that the planets seem very distant, their energy fields reach the Earth and influence the structures of earthly life, the bodies and souls of people. The radiations of the planets form continuously changing energy structures from which the fabric of life and all creation is woven.

It is believed that 9 planets act on us, 7 of them have physical bodies, and two are shadow ones.

These seven visible planets are a kind of energy centers of the Universe. They are conductors of the law of karma.

Sun.

The active male energy of the Sun - symbolizes the male Divine aspect, personifies the father. Demands respect for the father. If there is no respect for the father, the sunny aspect in life closes (the same applies to the boss, the government).

Moon.

The Moon represents the feminine Divine. The moon personifies feminine maternal energy and is responsible for childhood, childbirth, feelings and emotions. The important thing is to serve your mother.

Mars.

The nature of Mars is masculine, fiery, warlike. Gives self-confidence, willpower and energy to achieve goals.

The Sun and Moon represent the masculine and feminine in terms of fatherhood and motherhood, while Mars and Venus symbolize love partners.

Venus.

Venus is our ability to love, appreciate beauty, and be harmonious. Venus is an indicator of art - music, singing, dancing, painting, poetry. In a man's natal chart, Venus represents his wife or lover. Venus is an indicator of a marriage partner, a sexual partner.

Mercury.

Mercury symbolizes speech, communication, trade, education, intelligence.

Jupiter.

Jupiter is responsible for a person’s character, the firmness of his principles, the level of his morality and ethics. Jupiter is the planet of creativity, energy of expansion. It is the main indicator of children, their number, their health and our relationship with them.

Jupiter is the planet of luck, mercy, optimism and prosperity, money and prosperity. Jupiter is an indicator of good karma and unexpected gifts of fate; it shows the reserve of piety from past lives.

Saturn.

Saturn is called the arbiter of destinies.

If Jupiter symbolizes creativity and expansion, then Saturn symbolizes compression and destruction. Jupiter is the God of joy, an optimist, Saturn is the God of sorrow, a pessimist. Jupiter is a kind teacher, Saturn is stern and sometimes cruel. Saturn rules illness, old age and death - these harsh teachers of human life, before which everything that exists, subject to time, bows. On the other hand, destruction is the eternal companion of creation, and decay and death are necessary conditions for new life and growth.

Rahu.

Rahu is an indicator of karmic tasks. This is the planet of extremes - it acts either through the lower or through the higher aspect.

Ketu.

Ketu is the planet of wisdom, the spiritual world, responsible for enlightenment and liberation. The sign and house where Ketu is located shows the area in which we worked in a past life and where we have deep realizations.

Resource song.

When we sing our favorite song, our deepest feelings are expressed through it, and these feelings do not always coincide with the lyrics of the song...

The “Resource Song” technique allows you to sing your song through these feelings, living them physically - and the feelings go away, letting the person go.

My feminine gender.

Return of the Power of the Feminine.

Return of Femininity.

Acceptance of Women's Happiness.

Arrangement for women who want to feel the flow of the Power of their feminine Kin and receive the Blessing of the women of their Kin for Feminine Happiness.

My male gender.

Arrangement for men who want to accept the Power of their Masculine Gender and feel the strong shoulder of their father, grandfather, great-grandfather, great-great-grandfather and more...